Ramblings of a Crazed Mom

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Gumbo crabs

Ok so on Christmas Eve, I'm making a seafood gumbo. I have everything I need except gumbo crabs. I have okra, shrimp, crawfish tails (they sell those here - imagine that), sausage and gumbo base that has been imported from New Orleans. However they have no gumbo crabs and gumbo just isn't gumbo without the crabs (even though no one eats them b/c they are too lazy to peal them).

I asked yesterday at my local Walmart seafood dept for gumbo crabs, the lady looked at me like I had 10 heads. I explained I needed little whole frozen crabs still in their shell, she said she never heard of such thing. AHHHH

So DH is going back to New Orleans this week to get his brother and nephew for Christmas. On his way out the door I holler, oh hunny BTW, don't forget I NEED GUMBO CRABS.

Just goes to show , you can take the girl out of New Orleans but you can never take New Orleans out the girl.....

Friday, November 18, 2005

So Homesick :'(

Forgive me while I whine and feel sorry for myself for a minute. I'm so homesick today it hurts. I miss my home, I miss my friends. I just wanna go home. I hate this place, the only thing it has good going for it is Disney and as much as I would like, a girl can't go to Disney everyday of the week. The only people I know here are SIL and she's on my nerves. Chase only has his cousin who is 3 to play with. I've been meaning to join some playgroups, but they all meet 30-45 mins away in other cities and Chase has been sick

I know realisticly we can't go home b/c there is no home to go home too. DH could get a better job at home, making more money just b/c AC people are in demand. But we would have no place to live. DS also couldn't handle the mold with his allergies. Which is another thing that is getting to me lately - DS is reacting to something and I can't figure it out but his allergies are aweful right now.

I'm just really homesick, Chase is homesick - he told me tonight he just wanted a friend to play with .

I know I should be thankful that we are one of the lucky ones and I am. It could be worst right now. We could have nothing but a hotel room or FEMA trailer. But I'm sooo homesick and I just wanna go home

Anyway thanks for listening to me whine and vent I needed to get it out.

Friday, September 23, 2005

Things we need...

People have asked me to make a list of things we need so here goes....

Chase needs clothes he's in 3t/ 4t

Clint and I need clothes - Clint wears a size 3X or 46x30 in pants , I wear a size 24/26 or a 3x

Gift certificates always work well too, walmart, wholefoods, amazon etc

I also have 2 wish list up as requested by a group I'm in, they are at Amazon.com and Walmart.com you can search them under my name Cara Jouglard. The walmart one is finished, I'm still working on the Amazon one.

You can also join my website www.colormyworldgraphics.com and we both will benifit.

If you want to give us anything you can email us at cjouglard@earthlink.net

Thanks so much!

Cara

Wednesday, September 21, 2005

Priceless

One years tuition with registraion fee - $3590
Supplie Fee paid to School - $175
Uniforms for school - $200
Misc suppies to start school year - $100
Total spent of PreK 3 - $4065
Refund because of Katrina - 90% which roughly comes to $3000
BEING SCREWED BY THE ARCHDIOCESE OF NEW ORLEANS - PRICELESS
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Money to leave town and set up a new house approximetly - $4000
Contents of House Destroyed by Katrina approximetly - $20,000
Monday recived from the Red Cross - $965
Help From Total Stranger - Overwhemling and Unbelieveable
BEING SCREWED BY THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT IN MORE WAYS THEN ONE - PRICELESS

Monday, September 19, 2005

3 weeks ago today ....

I sat in my SIL's living room and watched in horror has my beloved city and home where destroyed by Hurricane Katrina. In those few hours she came on shore she ruined and changed many lives. We now are living in Apopka, Fla which is about 30 mins North of Orlando and 600 someodd miles from my beloved but ruined city.

We have very little most of which was given to us by the sheer kindness of strangers. We lost everything in those hours that Katrina hit. As the storm surge broke the levee that was behind my house and filled my neighborhood with the waters of Lake Ponchatrain. Or as my friends and I now jokingly call it the Gulf Of New Orleans. From what I was told the water rose 5-7 ft in a matter of 20 seconds and then rose to 20 ft in 10 mins. The water was at around 12 - 15 ft the day after Katrina (Aug 30) and as of today the water in my house is still at around 4-5 ft. So basically my house has been sitting underwater for 3 weeks. YUCK I don't even want to know what it will look like but I imagine its a bunch of moldy sludge.

Oh yeah don't listen to the national news, if you want to really know what is going on down there, go to the local sources, I've learned more reading one day of the local paper then I have in 3 weeks of CNN, FOX or MSNBC. Some local websites to check out are nola.com, WDSU these are where I've gotten the best info from.

I've got more to say about Katrina and I've finally at the point where I can talk about it as we are getting ready to get hit by other storm.

Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers as we will be needing them.

Something else I want to add. I was emailed this , this week, it's one of the best things I have read. It was written by a columnist at the local paper in New Orleans and it is just awesome.

Dear America,

I suppose we should introduce ourselves: We're South Louisiana. We have arrived on your doorstep on short notice and we apologize for that, but we never were much for waiting around for invitations. We're not much on formalities like that. And we might be staying around your town for a while, enrolling in your schools and looking for jobs, so we wanted to tell you a few things about us. We know you didn't ask for this and neither did we, so we're just going to have to make the best of it. First of all, we thank you. For your money, your water, your food, your prayers, your boats and buses and the men and women of your National Guards, fire departments, hospitals and everyone else who has come to our rescue. We're a fiercely proud and independent people, and we don't cotton much to outside interference, but we're not ashamed to accept help when we need it. And right now, we need it. Just don't get carried away. For instance, once we get around to fishing again, don't try to tell us what kind of lures work best in your waters. We're not going to listen. We're stubborn that way. You probably already know that we talk funny and listen to strange music and eat things you'd probably hire an exterminator to get out of your yard. We dance even if there's no radio. We drink at funerals. We talk too much and laugh too loud and live too large and, frankly, we're suspicious of others who don't. But we'll try not to judge you while we're in your town. Everybody loves their home, we know that. But we love South Louisiana with a ferocity that borders on the pathological. Sometimes we bury our dead in LSU sweatshirts. Often we don't make sense. You may wonder why, for instance - if we could only carry one small bag of belongings with us on our journey to your state - why in God's name did we bring a pair of shrimp boots? We can't really explain that. It is what it is. You've probably heard that many of us stayed behind. As bad as it is, many of us cannot fathom a life outside of our border, out in that place we call Elsewhere. The only way you could understand that is if you have been there, and so many of you have. So you realize that when you strip away all the craziness and bars and parades and music and architecture and all that hooey, really, the best thing about where we come from is us. We are what made this place a national treasure. We're good people. And don't be afraid to ask us how to pronounce our names. It happens all the time. When you meet us now and you look into our eyes, you will see the saddest story ever told. Our hearts are broken into a thousand pieces. But don't pity us. We're gonna make it. We're resilient. After all, we've been rooting for the Saints for 35 years. That's got to count for something. OK, maybe something else you should know is that we make jokes at inappropriate times. But what the hell. And one more thing: In our part of the country, we're used to having visitors. It's our way of life. So when all this is over and we move back home, we will repay to you the hospitality and generosity of spirit you offer to us in this season of our despair. That is our promise. That is our faith.

Chris Rose for The Times-Picayune Chris Rose can be reached at noroses@bellsouth.net. Please pass this around to all Louisiana natives, wherever they may be

Friday, August 26, 2005

I don't have time for this

Of course on the one weekend of the year when I have 1001 things to do here comes Katrina. If you haven't heard about Katrina yet, she's a hurricane. She's in the Gulf and threatening to hit the Gulf Coast sometime on Monday. As usual they have no clue where she is going. They only know that it will be somewhere between New Orleans or Southern Louisiana and the Panhandle of Fla. GRRRRRRRRRRRRR

I don't have time for this, I definitly don't have the energy for this and you know I honestly don't know if I care. LOL

Tonight and tomorrow will the be the key times into us making our call as to what we are going to do.

Please keep everyone in your thoughts and prayers!

Wednesday, August 10, 2005

Hurry up and wait

That's what it feels like. Hurry and get all this paper work in and now wait........

Right now I'm waiting for life insurance money and for another fund my dad had. There are things I want to do with this money and it just won't come. For the life insurance it's been 5 weeks already since it was turned in. I know I know they say 4-6 weeks but come on, how hard is it to cut a check when you have all the paperwork you need. For the other it's only been a week and so I dont expect that anytime soon.

The next thing is his city reitrement, that's going to take forever too. It took them 5 weeks just to send the paperwork I needed to fill out.

So that's the story of my life right now

Reminds me of Dr's Suess Book " The Places You'll Go" - where he talks about the waiting game. That's what I'm playing the waiting game. With everything and everybody when it comes to my dad's estate.

Hurry get us the paperwork and now wait till we get around to dealing with it.